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Everybody seems to have this ring!

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Love it! It will be my DIY project for my new house! :)

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Owh what do you know, tomorrow is the new year. Ok what have I accomplished? Alhamdulillah I am proud of certain achievements and I am ashamed for my failures and have since learnt from it. I am happy that I am blissfully married for a year now :) I am happy for having my wonderful family, relatives and friends! :) I am grateful that I still uphold the good values that I always believed in, no matter how much pressure I’ve gotten myself into from others.

2012
I look forward to attending more weddings next year! Seeing happy couples tying the knot to me is such a happy moment. I like the positive energy and vibe when I look at the smiling faces of the bride and groom :) 

I shall try to snap more photos to capture the moments of 2012. I shall try!

I shall get rid of the stash of ‘kain’ I have kept for the longest time to make me more “formal clothing” for all of 2012 weddings! :)

To smile at the time when the situation is most challenging! :D and to not let my emotion get the best of me! (the hardest but lets start anyway)

HAPPY NEW YEAR AND MAY ALLAH BLESS ALL OF US 

tumblr has become the perfect tool or place to vent out my “inner turbulence”. These past couple of days or weeks have been great as in positivity has gotten the best of me. Until today, until i had to hear for the 100th time (or more) on the same crappy and worthless piece of information. How could people be so inconsiderate and blind to actually see that i just dont care!Who the hell care about facts on your most annoying factor that is affecting your life! Who the hell care!

Am i missing the vital point? The real message behind it. Deciphering the code, no matter how complex it is. Then again, just as i said it, it’s worthless, not worthy of my time, hence should not take any second more than i have already invested in writing this hateful piece.

everybody keep saying the same thing, if you are not happy doing something, you should STOP. i keep telling myself that no way i can stop. whatever it is i don’t want to live in regret. its the single most painful thing you have to bear. on one hand its about what YOU want, on the other it is actually one of your necessity besides wanting to keep everybody happy. what i meant by everybody is actually my parents. the best alternative that i can think of is to find yet another alternative with a different surrounding. this is when being fickle minded is absolutely tiring. just when i had the opportunity, i let it passed. not until quite sometime that it really dawned on me..GREAT i am back to square 1….sigh..may the force be with me to help me a get a new direction ;)

I feel sorry for all those people who defined their happiness based on how much money they have compared to others and I feel even more sorry for those who were victimized for not having money and for not being able to splurge. Yes money does make life easier, I get it. But what I don’t get is the excessive obsession about money that some people can’t stop talking about it in every conversation that they had. I believe there are other things in life that is more worthwhile to obsess about?! Being a better person or planning your life towards the eternal Jannah perhaps? In my most honest and humble opinion, I don’t understand the need to have constant pressure to earn a gazillion tonne of money in every second and minute of your life, to debate about your spending and your salary. Then again, having to said all of the above, every person in this world deserves to have their personal goal. They probably have loved ones/dependants to care for instead of those who solely intend to show off.I believe it is suffice to say that, whatever it is that you are aiming for (be it money, money or money) work your way towards it with less noise as much as you possible can. 

Everybody have their own way to do things. They have their own preferences, they have their own choices and they might like the things that you may hate to the core. I have my own preferences, reasons to things and I am happy in my own way. I don’t see why a friend can’t be happy for you on your choices just because he or she doesn’t like your decision, your outlook towards life, your choice of girlfriend or boyfriend or even your spouse! It is perfectly understandable to not have the same taste in things but it is absolutely unacceptable to have a friend ridiculing you over your decision that you have happily made. Especially on things that are serious. If you have nothing positive to say, then I suggest just shut up. Knowing the right time to critic is imperative. You may have a long list of concerns towards a friend but understand the big picture before saying anything that could break someone’s heart. You may be dying to let your friend know what you think but seriously consider the implication of your words. There are nicer ways to do things, subtle and polite words to say than to just drop bombs on a situation which you clearly have no clue. 

Being in this situation, one must be matured in handling these individuals you call friends. It may be easier to succumb to your rage and emotion, but it makes you a no better person than them. Happy Holidays!

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Lying sick on my bed on a saturday is not something I would choose but anyway i could use this rest. This week has been an emotion draining week with my patience being tested to a level that I never knew I had. Sacrificing for others is hard, let alone when in your mind you have this thinking that you are the only one sacrificing and people are only taking. It further ache me when how it’s being done is questionable and the reasoning to it is downright dumb. In the normal world when someone proposed to get something out of someone, be it money, time, energy, car and other valuable assets, the proposition must be rock solid and no one will be able to dispute it. Only then the sacrifice will be worthwhile. If you do not believe in what you are sacrificing then I believe it will end in hatred. Of course you will try to justify your noble act by talking to others who may just have the thought that it is wrong for me to hate, only to find out that everyone else thinks it’s stupid too. What more can I say…

It’s the month of July, as a matter of fact it’s nearly end of July. I am trying to make myself busy by thinking of what I could possibly be doing on the net ( besides FB) than to be bored and nurture any negativity within me ( God knows how I am currently being tested!)- and I remembered my tumblr. And so here I am! My last post was about my 2011 resolution. I particularly would like to touch on the point of me wanting to be positive. I have to say it is the single most challenging thing in my life and I am being completely honest when I say I am making very slow progress on it (if not none). It seems that I have been doing everything that is wrong to tackle this. I need a new perspective!